Site Meter Eating Disorder Talk » Blog Archive » Easy to get Obsessive

Easy to get Obsessive

by

In this world, it is easy to get obsessed with every little thing that I put into my body. I have done quite well for a long time (until this recent binging problem). Then, I found myself really listening to every little thing other people had to say. I started trying to be perfect and abide everything that other people were suggesting as though it was the word of G-d. In the end, I totally got sick of other people’s opinions. Yes, they are opinions.

They may have a point. They may be scientifically supported, but all it does is make me go freakin insane! I have been a healthy girl (aside from my binging) for more than three years. I eat extremely healthy and I don’t like it when people make me feel even more guilty for not being vegan. Holy crap! I don’t want to be vegan. I can still eat meat and be a healthy girl.

Seriously, only getting input from other people makes me more obsessive. It also gets me to realize that many people - instead of focusing on themselves - become obsessed with fixing other people. I am totally guilty of that and now that I am realizing what it feels like to be the victim, I am going to be more considerate and keep my opinions to myself.


2 Responses to “Easy to get Obsessive”

  1. Bead Jewellery Says:

    I am new to beading and am confused by all the sizes of seed beads. Can you tell me how many beads I get in each different size? Seed beads are measured in aughts. This can be confusing as we are used to inches and millimeters as our unit of measure. Aughts are the number of beads lined up side by side in a given space. A 6/0 bead means that you will get 6 beads in the space. 11/0 will be eleven beads in the same amount of space. So the smaller the number the bigger the bead, as it takes fewer beads to fill the space. This chart will help you determine the number of seed beads per inch based on size. Remember that this is approximate as there are differences between manufacturers, country of origin and finishes.

  2. Beading Says:

    What if I live more than 30 miles from Tolland, CT- can I still host a beading party workshop? Please contact me. In most cases, you can still host a beading party workshop but there may be a small fee to cover additional mileage.

Leave a Reply


About Eating Disorder Talk

The goal of Eating Disorder Talk is to encourage family and friends of people living with disordered eating - as well as sufferers - to learn more about the conditions, where to get help, the risks associated and another vessel of communication. I come with 20 years of experience living with (and sometimes for) anorexia; my job is not to cure, it’s to allow others to speak. This means wanting to help those that want help and to provide a voice to those who don’t.

Eating Disorder Talk Author(s)

Blogging Flair

button.GIF

Science & Health Channel Posts

  • What The Heck Is Treatment Resistant Depression?
    This is a dreadfully named type of chronic depression. Please, someone in the medical community rename this thing. When you're depressed, you're always convinced that you cannot be cured or helped. [...]
  • Victoria's Secret? She's a Vegan!
    Victoria's Secret is no longer hiding in closet. The lingerie and beauty product brand is getting loud and proud about veganism. Pink Body is a new line of Victoria's Secret cosmetics - including [...]
  • I binged
    Yes. I am not all perfect and cured. I totally had a binge last night. It was my own fault. I had junk food lying around the house for the "future" and needless to say, I pounced on the food last [...]
  • Is Volumetrics for you?
    [caption id="attachment_756" align="alignnone" width="339" caption="Volumetrics "][/caption]"Free foods" are those that help you get more bang for your buck because they contain a lot of water, [...]
  • Psoriasis and Earache
    I'm going to be honest and beg the blogosphere for information of psoriasis and earache. I have psoriasis and now it seems to have spread to my right ear. It causes a dull ache, but not bad enough [...]
  • Dear Non-Vegans, Love Eccentric Vegan
    Eccentric Vegan compiled a great resource post, called "Dear Non-Vegans," all about why meat, eggs, all other animal products are not healthy, humane, or environmentally friendly on Vegan Soapbox. I [...]
  • Top Ten signs of Alzheimers Disease
    [caption id="attachment_1800" align="alignnone" width="67" caption="Alzheimers"][/caption]Memory loss that disrupts everyday life is not a normal part of aging. It may be a sign of Alzheimer's [...]
  • The best way to measure body fat
    [caption id="attachment_796" align="alignnone" width="104" caption="Tape Measure"][/caption]When does "putting on a few pounds" cross the line into needing to lose weight? Neither scale, BMI, pinch [...]
  • Exacts on how you too can run up expensive therapy bills for your children.
    Ok, so see, as I said, I’ve never been away from my children much.  And, I have missed not one, not two but on Saturday, I will have missed three of my son’s basketball games.  Never in [...]
  • Published Letter to the Editor
    My first letter to the editor was published this week in the Middle Tennessee State University student newspaper, Sidelines. Here's the published version of what I wrote in response to their article [...]

Hot Off The Press